Comments on: How NOT to Write an Online Dating Message http://onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/how-not-to-write-an-online-dating-message/ Online Dating Advice Fri, 18 May 2012 18:44:30 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Kay http://onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/how-not-to-write-an-online-dating-message/comment-page-1/#comment-70195 Kay Sun, 18 Dec 2011 23:52:32 +0000 http://www.onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/?p=172#comment-70195 I hate emails like that. They show such a sense of entitlement, simmering resentment and anger, and a total lack of manners. Men, don't do it. It only makes you look bad. And women, don't try this crap either. I hate emails like that. They show such a sense of entitlement, simmering resentment and anger, and a total lack of manners. Men, don’t do it. It only makes you look bad. And women, don’t try this crap either.

]]> By: Refugio Holthaus http://onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/how-not-to-write-an-online-dating-message/comment-page-1/#comment-26132 Refugio Holthaus Tue, 07 Jun 2011 10:05:40 +0000 http://www.onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/?p=172#comment-26132 Howdy! I know this is somewhat off topic but I was wondering which blog platform are you using for this site? I'm getting sick and tired of Wordpress because I've had issues with hackers and I'm looking at alternatives for another platform. I would be fantastic if you could point me in the direction of a good platform. Howdy! I know this is somewhat off topic but I was wondering which blog platform are you using for this site? I’m getting sick and tired of WordPress because I’ve had issues with hackers and I’m looking at alternatives for another platform. I would be fantastic if you could point me in the direction of a good platform.

]]> By: Hammer http://onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/how-not-to-write-an-online-dating-message/comment-page-1/#comment-6495 Hammer Tue, 12 Oct 2010 20:20:39 +0000 http://www.onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/?p=172#comment-6495 While I agree that this particular message is an idiotic second message to send, I have actually had great success with sending a follow up message. In fact, I generally get as many women to respond to my follow up as I do to my initial one, despite it being a straight copy/paste. The success rate of getting them out on a date is slightly lower than if they were to respond to my first message (maybe 60% as compared to 90%), but definitely still worth doing. Is this something you've played with? In this message, I typically joke about their electricity going out and wonder if that is why they couldn't respond, then tell them if they're still looking to respond, and give them some characteristics. While I agree that this particular message is an idiotic second message to send, I have actually had great success with sending a follow up message. In fact, I generally get as many women to respond to my follow up as I do to my initial one, despite it being a straight copy/paste. The success rate of getting them out on a date is slightly lower than if they were to respond to my first message (maybe 60% as compared to 90%), but definitely still worth doing. Is this something you’ve played with?

In this message, I typically joke about their electricity going out and wonder if that is why they couldn’t respond, then tell them if they’re still looking to respond, and give them some characteristics.

]]> By: Ammy http://onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/how-not-to-write-an-online-dating-message/comment-page-1/#comment-5356 Ammy Sun, 06 Jun 2010 02:54:07 +0000 http://www.onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/?p=172#comment-5356 That's the kind of stuff that will get you on DateWrecks to warn the rest of us from bothering with you. ;) That’s the kind of stuff that will get you on DateWrecks to warn the rest of us from bothering with you. ;)

]]> By: russruggles http://onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/how-not-to-write-an-online-dating-message/comment-page-1/#comment-5327 russruggles Tue, 01 Jun 2010 17:31:05 +0000 http://www.onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/?p=172#comment-5327 Hehe - yeah, I guess I hadn't even considered that he may have sent that to *every* woman who didn't respond. That's dating life suicide right there. Hehe – yeah, I guess I hadn’t even considered that he may have sent that to *every* woman who didn’t respond. That’s dating life suicide right there.

]]> By: Steve http://onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/how-not-to-write-an-online-dating-message/comment-page-1/#comment-5316 Steve Mon, 31 May 2010 04:41:58 +0000 http://www.onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/?p=172#comment-5316 I just want to know: Does this casanova taylor his 2nd attempt emails to each woman who ignores him or is this a form letter? Either way, he's sure wasting a LOT of energy showing women how socially inept he is. Personally, I think this young lady should have accepted a date with him so she could reject him in public>:) I just want to know: Does this casanova taylor his 2nd attempt emails to each woman who ignores him or is this a form letter? Either way, he’s sure wasting a LOT of energy showing women how socially inept he is.
Personally, I think this young lady should have accepted a date with him so she could reject him in public>:)

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